Growing up, you were probably called the same name. Maybe a nickname was thrown in there. Perhaps your label as ‘mom’ is your most important. But balancing being a mom and a travel nurse is no easy task.
Who you answer to and your priorities have likely shifted over time. So, how do you juggle it all? Here are some tried and true tips for answering both.
1. Know your priorities
As both a mom and a travel nurse, you’re constantly being pulled in different directions. Before taking an assignment, get crystal clear on what matters most — whether it’s schedule flexibility, assignment location, or proximity to family. Prioritizing what aligns with your family’s needs and your career goals will help you make decisions with confidence and reduce unnecessary stress down the road. Remember: not every contract will fit your life perfectly, and that’s okay.
2. Get help
You don’t have to do it all alone. Lean on your support system, whether it’s your partner, parents, close friends, or trusted childcare providers. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or outsource where possible, from babysitters to meal delivery. If you’re traveling with your kids, research daycare options or nanny services in advance. If you’re leaving them home, ensure there’s a strong support network in place. It’s not weakness; it’s smart planning.
3. Self-care is important
It’s easy to put yourself last when you’re balancing your career and motherhood, but burnout helps no one. Prioritize small, meaningful moments of self-care — even if it’s a quick workout, a solo coffee break, or a good night’s sleep. Protecting your mental and emotional well-being allows you to show up as your best self both at work and at home. Remember: rest is productive.
4. Holidays and birthdays might look different
Being a travel nurse sometimes means working through holidays, missing family traditions, or celebrating milestones virtually. This can be hard, but it doesn’t mean those moments are any less special. Find creative ways to make them meaningful: celebrate early, plan virtual parties, or start new traditions that fit your family’s unique lifestyle. Flexibility and intention can turn “different” into something positive.
5. Master time management
Time management isn’t just about scheduling your travel nurse shifts. It’s about carving out intentional time for family, self-care, and rest. Plan your weeks ahead, use tools like calendars and reminders, and be realistic about what you can accomplish. The more organized you are, the more present you can be in both roles.
6. Get rid of mom guilt
Mom guilt can creep in, especially when you’re away from your kids. But remind yourself: you’re providing for your family, modeling strength, and pursuing a career you love. Your kids don’t need perfection — they need a happy, fulfilled parent. Release the guilt and embrace the pride in what you’re accomplishing. Balance isn’t about having it all at once; it’s about making it work for your family in your own way.
Being a mom and a nurse is extremely rewarding. Finding balance with it all will likely look different as your children age. Be flexible and just remember why you’re doing both!
